SEX ENERGY: A glow up or a glow down?

Written by: Grace Umeadi

Published on: March 13, 2025

There’s nothing like a good glow emanating from someone after an all night of Hula-hupa. For some, their skin becomes clearer, mood lighter, and yes, there could be this sort of, relief.

But this is quite debatable. Infact, over the last couple of years, many folks have been trying to protect their overall energy by abstaining from “you know what.” And in this case, one could say that there’s nothing like a good glow after a while of abstaining from “Hula-Hupa.” 

There are two types of people on the subject of Hula-Hupa…sex: Those who believe having sex and the people we have them with can influence a couple of things; physical and spiritual, and those who believe it’s just…sex. 

But let’s get down to one truth here; Sex is an energy. It is a reflection of our emotions, state of mind, and part of the consequences of things happening around us. Some experts would even say, Sex is manifestation energy. If you don’t seem to think you’re glowing after your sexual exchange with someone, or you find the act unpleasant after, then this likely means that person isn’t on the same vibe or page with you.

Sex: A Deep Serious Act or Not?

We asked licensed sexologist and relationship therapist, Sophie Ross, https://passionerad.se/, what she really thinks on the subject, and she gave us her insight.

“Sexual energy is the energy of desire, passion, love, the urge to be intimate; both physically and emotionally, the lust and the curiosity of each other. It’s a feeling that can arise out of deep and instant attraction, but is something that for many takes a long time to build up, something that requires an already emotionally deep connection with the other person, and that you feel safe with them.”

Really, there are two major ways one can reach their highest sexual potentials, and one of those is by doing it with someone we click with: And no, clicking with that person doesn’t mean you have to be in love or be all mushy with the human, you just have to; what’s that phrase? 

Run On The Same Vibe

Sex Expert Sophie Ross, explains that to be able to actually feel the ‘right’ sexual energy, you need to be with someone you can click with…but there’s something else:

not just clicking with the person though, you do need to just let go and follow your emotions because sex energy is nothing you can force by thought. Which brings us to the second way you can reach your highest sexual potential.

Sex Energy: It All Begins With You!

So you’re feeling down and disgusted about sex…you have some ‘not-so-positive’ thoughts and you expect to have a good glow after a night of Hula-Hupa?

While it is true that the person you have sex with could determine if you’d have a good time or a “draining’ time, it really all begins with you. Your attitude and ‘story’ on the subject of sex goes a long way in influencing your sexual energy. 

If you focus on thinking about sex in a positive light, then this is one step towards unlocking a great sexual energy.

“So if focusing on finding your sexual energy, embrace it and then meet your partner in it, you will get a much richer sex life that will give you a richer life in general, both in bed, as a couple and as individuals, not only thanks to the explosion of hormones being released, but also because you get to know yourself and your partner so much better on an emotional level!”

Expert Sophie Ross emphasizes on a good sexual energy not only being one of the pros to a beautiful mental health but also manifesting physically like affecting one’s hormones, and even being a drug to a clear skin.

Sophie Ross says with a good sexual energy, you can get, “ higher doses of dopamine and oxytocin from the sex which makes you feel happier, more motivated, “high on life”, safe, calm and in love.”

Sex Energy; Is it Just About the Actual Sex?

Hey, if you think sex energy is only about, well, sex? Then think again!

Sex energy is really about cultivating a deep connection with yourself, your body, and your emotions. It's about feeling confident, comfortable, and empowered; with or without a partner.

And when you exude a positive sex Energy, with or without a partner, then you’d:

• Feel good about yourself and your body

• Exude confidence and self-assurance

• Connect with your intuition and inner wisdom

• Attract healthy, positive relationships

And, let's get real, when you're comfortable in your own skin, you're more likely to connect with your chakras (those energy centers in your body, something tantric sex would teach you about). With a great Sex Energy, It's like your inner spark is ignited! You could even feel like the most powerful person on earth!

Even witches know a thing or two about harnessing sex energy for their spells. They'll often perform rituals in the buff (yes, naked!) to tap into their inner power and manifest their desires. Who knew magic could be so... liberating?